I Define Me!
How do you define yourself?
Wife, Husband, partner? Daughter, Son, Aunt, Uncle? Worker, Unemployed, Retired?
We all give ourselves labels, and labels are fine. But what if we define ourselves by these labels?
Sometime we, without realising it, define who we are by something bad that has happened to us.
Victim, Sufferer, Battered....
We trap ourselves in a box, we see ourselves as a singularity.
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But you don't have to live in a box and this is what I Define Me Coaching is all about.
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Why we are here
Have you put yourself in a box?
The Tree of Life
There are many version of the Tree of Life, for example, the Celts believed it represented the connection between earth and the afterlife. They believed the trees were their ancestors.​
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At I Define Coaching we have a different view of the Tree of Life. To us it is all about just that, Life.
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Life is a journey with many branches taking us to unknown destinations. Life should be lived and loved.
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But like trees, we need nurturing to grow. We need sustenance, we need space to grow a community around us to protect us.​​
My Story
Our Story
On the 19th August 2015 my life changed forever. Two days prior I was in for a routine surgery, which from all accounts went well. However, within 48 hours I was rushed to the emergency room by my husband and underwent a 6 hour surgery to repair a perforated bowel.
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In July 2021, a story appeared on the 7:30 Report, calling into question the abilities of my surgeon.
My world had been turned upside down and I put myself in a box.
